Custody and Blended Families

You fall in love with a man who has children. You fall in love with a woman who has children. These children are small, which are then thrown into the flow of everyday life of children. It is quite possible against the will of the other biological parent, themselves and maybe even himself. The guard can be a strain on children, birth parents and remarriage is involved.
It is not always tale as it is meant to be. These children were raised by different people. With different standards. They may have completely different moral educations you or for their own children moving image as well.
How do you not think the parents:
It's easy to say, "These are just kids, they will come to their senses" or say "I'll leave the parenting to the biological parents and to be a friend of children" or "I will be the parent in charge their lives "but these adages do not solve all cases. the guard can influence what the family most of the" best interests "for children shown.
The guard does not depend on "love" for most. Be brought with custody issues, housewives and parents still span the power to discipline when the biological father is in the shop, work or school. Authority in the house must enforce and not walk or played into the hands of one of the biological parents in custody disputes.
It is always easy to judge an external point of view and think that really hands at once. Especially when you and your spouse work. But consider you marry someone who has a small child. They decided to run to the store, you leave the toilet training or refusal to change a diaper or feed them until the parents return? Will you ask the child to listen politely and do not draw on the walls, because it is not his place to discipline when caught something wrong and let them continue? Are you going to leave the fighting siblings step children get completely out of hand because no authority to hear you?
For the sake of transmitting children, I hope. In some cases, the stage of reproduction can be wonderful. Both biological parents can be mature enough to understand that love is after their separation and embrace more people who love their children is the best for their children.
How biological parents include:
In other cases, it is still not mature. No bitterness, anger, resentment or even pure hatred. The division of children and against the one or the other parent. It could be a parent to push and force their children to say or talk about bad things in order to get custody. And when a parent step is registered in such situations, it becomes the biggest target on the back of the parents pass.
In my experience, Paso Crianza started pretty easy. The children quickly took me and loved my entire extended family. Once your biological mother realized that it was here to stay, things took a turn for the worse. The guard has become a problem because things have deteriorated by children after my arrival. And with that, step parenting has become a battleground in my own home on respect of the application, ask my husband in the back of my game, and ensure that children are not there to to replace somebody .
Collect and downs have become driven panic. How children behave today? They are immaculate and excited about the week we planned, or were forced from time to think with us is only to be wrong with your mother? It's our birthday party as good as yours? They complain again every meal I cook in front of his mother? This part will be the kids excited, or cry because of how his mother is sad they are with us? They will open the hearing custody and say what your mother told you this week? How many weeks this continues? For me, it happens three years.
There are resources for blended families and the care that therapy and family counseling can help. But if there is no concrete equipment in his private home, no amount of therapy can endure the pain of being able to fight in the middle of a situation that you were not even a part of since the beginning. pointing fingers, bad behavior and resentment in children will increase so rapidly in some of the most formative years, you can take the hand of God and the wisdom to undo the work of men and women in their lives bitter.
I'm not saying it can not happen, but the way of perfection when you start on a bumpy road, it seems unbearable. It may seem that there is no end in sight. It may be better to withdraw because of them. But it is not. You're the only parent, you and your spouse are willing to fight for the best for them, then you must understand that there is a purpose.
You can not understand the journey. Or why the road is so rocky at that time or why the guardianship was yet to be questioned, but children thrive on consistency. Be there and be a light in their lives. They come to see him. He hopes that you are there to see who see it. Otherwise, have faith that God has brought you to the person who is supposed to be. Only two forces can take on the world together. Only two can make it through this story full of garbage together. Dig in the dirt road and begin paving construction to guide better than it was before.
Ultimately, marrying someone is not something to be taken lightly, regardless of what the company grows to resemble marriage. And when it comes to children, time and understanding is the only thing that will help you persevere. Especially when custody, but the court will be in. Sometimes it feels like we wander in the woods without humanity in sight, but there is still humanity out of danger and there is always a light at the end of the tunnel .


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